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you can have a cheat-sheet listing all the patterns right there in front of you.
If you have anything you can add leave it as a comment. You can never have too much
artillery!
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The  80 s Dog Opener (Style)
 Hey guys, I need a quick opinion about something. My friend just got two dogs, a Pug
dog, and a Beagle dog. She wants to name them after an 80 s pop duo, but I can t for
the life of me think of a good one. Do you guys have any ideas?
The game here is to keep presenting options to the group, and then disqualifying those
options. The real sneaky thing here is that there are no well-known 80 s pop duos, so
this conversation can last a long time, and that allows you to segue into a deeper
conversation.
Here are a few of the options you can talk to them about:
 I was thinking Sonny and Cher would be a good one, because the Pug dog is a male and
the Beagle dog is a female. But they re 70 s, not 80 s, so that won t work.
 Maybe Axel and Slash would be good, but they re rock n roll hairband style, plus one
of the dogs is a female, so that won t work at all.
 Milli Vanilli was a thought, but those are both guy names. We need a female name.
Plus, Milli doesn t fit a Pug or a Beagle. That s more of a Jack Russel Terrier name.
And no matter what option your targets present you, find a way to disqualify it. Then
use the times your target s think about names to engage them in some other respect.
This can be a fun Opener to do and can really open the doors to further conversation if
you play it right.
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Arrest (Vincent Chase)
Excuse me... You're not Susan Jensen, are you? (They usually say no, then offer their
name. If they don't offer their name simply ask, "What's your name?" Try to get the first
and last name.) Oh, in that case. You're under arrest. (Turn her around.) You have the
right to remain silent. (Take her by the forearms.) Anything you say can and will be
fucking hilarious, because I'm not a police officer, but you fell for it hard.
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The  Good-Looking People Opener (Joseph Mathews)
This Opener works well if you re not a  conventionally good looking person and your
target is quite good looking. This is also best to use in low-key settings with solitary
targets (for example, standing in line). Basically, you walk up to your target, and say the
following& (Shake your head in an exasperated way)  Hey, let me tell you something
about good looking
people& we re not well liked.
You may have a delayed reaction from this one, but once people get the joke, you re
value will be raised in their eyes because it s  smart humor. And the fact that your
target got the joke will make them feel like they are on your level of
intelligence, which will help validate them and open them up for further conversation.
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Frisbee Opener (Mystery)
Get a really cool Frisbee. Carry it with you in your bag. Convey to women that you are
 active . That is an attractive quality. If you are in a park or at the beach you can pull out
the Frisbee and yell to a girl (with a playful smile),  Here, catch. Lets play Frisbee. This
is a good opener when you come across two or more girls too. If a girl is alone reading
you can throw the Frisbee right by her and say,  umm & could you get that for me?
Then do it again:  umm & could you get that one more time? Then do it AGAIN and
say,  you know what? If you were to put that book down it sure would make our little
game of Frisbee more fun. You will be surprised at how a Frisbee can be a great prop
for initiating chat with a woman in outdoor situations. Imagine a girl is walking along the
street and you want to meet her. You pull out the Frisbee and get her attention.  Here,
catch. Do that a couple of times and then say as you are throwing,  You know, I ve
been such a city-boy lately that just playing Frisbee has been such an incredible escape.
Come. We have to be further apart. Catch. Then immediately go into a routine (such as
the bear routine: talking about the bear you came across while hiking -  see how far
apart we are? That s how far I was from the bear. Can you imagine? And do you know
what I did? I took this Frisbee and knocked him out with it. (Facetiously) No really,
beaned him right in the head and out cold he went. Oh yeah. Here. Im the bear. Come
on. Bean me. Right here. Try come on, I m the big scary bear, grrrrrr. )
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Avoiding Someone (Foucault)
So you know when you're at a party and someone you're avoiding shows up...and you
have to look completely enthralled in conversation to keep them from talking to you?
Her: "Oh totally..." (No one has said no yet.) Yeah, so thanks for helping me out.
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Book Store Opener (Mystery)
Buy a bag of gummy worms and hide one in your hand the next time you target a
woman in a bookstore while she reads a book. Walk up next to her, smile and say,  Can I [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]